Thursday, August 15, 2013

Philippines Sexpats at a glance

"Once a sexpat  fully ingratiated himself within the expat community, there is absolutely no chance for his re-assimilation back into the real world.  The underlying shame and guilt for the extent of his insalubrious indulgences can only be managed so long as he maintains his current lifestyle and continues to live a life of deluded bliss.  The real world will simply not accept someone so lacking in basic moral standards, personal hygiene and self-respect – plus his mate Dave will probably call him a poof." 

From Philippines-sexpats wall of shame we read this: 

Evan Iliadis: Philippines Sexpats at a glance

Philippines Sexpats at a glance

Beautiful Filipina you deserve better than those old farts. You don't have to wear a mask or get drunk first before you go to bed with them. Just because they have a few extra dollars.. He had a limp wrested dick? Was extremely Hairy? 80+ years Old? Had no teeth? Growth Warts all over his body? Paper flappy Thin Skin? Boring and falls asleep half the time? Slow Minded with Dementia? Has kids OLDER than you? You are the MOTHER to a 40-50 year old kids and you are 18? When there are Hundreds of Thousands of YOUNG SEXY HOT GUYS all over the world to choose from?  Read More....



Making fun of sexpats

how to be a “hansum man”, or “the sexpat’s guide to fashion

Philippines Sexpats at a glance
Philippines Sexpats at a glance(image source: Stickman Bangkok)
Whether you’ve already retired to your “girlfriend’s” Issan country village to open a shitty sports bar or whether you’re still auditioning Third World prostitutes to find your lucky bride, a good sexpat look doesn’t just happen. it’s the result of many carefully arranged details, each of which must express “No one in their right mind would ever fuck me for free”.For those of you unclear on how to be a “handsum man”, I’m gonna break it down:

A revealing tank top.  Philippines Sexpats at a glance
While no one would complain about seeing Justin Timberlake or Rain rocking a tank top, a true sexpat wears a tank top on a body better suited to hijabs or whatever Baron Harkonen wears.  
Question: If I’m not fat, can I still pull off a sexpat look?
While being morbidly obese is the quickest way to make yourself as unattractive as possible, if you simply can’t make yourself eat enough Sizzlers, you can always resort to a really offensive tattoo (like the fellow teacher at my friend’s workplace who had a tatoo of a dwarf giving the finger — wouldn’t you want that dude teaching your kids?), or a 4-foot smelly long grey ponytail.   Read more....

An Essay on Idiots

Philippines Sexpats at a glance

"Once a sexpat  fully ingratiated himself within the expat community, there is absolutely no chance for his re-assimilation back into the real world.  The underlying shame and guilt for the extent of his insalubrious indulgences can only be managed so long as he maintains his current lifestyle and continues to live a life of deluded bliss.  The real world will simply not accept someone so lacking in basic moral standards, personal hygiene and self-respect – plus his mate Dave will probably call him a poof. " Read more....

Philippines Sexpats at a glance
Philippines Sexpats at a glance

Sexpats, Missionaries, Hired Guns, and English Teachers; An Introduction to the expat scene.

The (S)expats are often older Western guys (but not always older), who love Vietnam because here they are a white god. Not every guy who dates Viets is a Sexpat, but boy, you can tell them when you see them. You can recognize most Sexpats by the age or beauty difference between them and their Vietnamese girlfriends/wives. Old guy with young girl? Sexpat

Ugly guy with beautiful local girl? Sexpat. Back home, they are usually guys who have a hard time getting laid, but here, they can always find a girl whose lifetime earnings will total what the Sexpat earns in one year. As such, the Sexpat represents a way out of village life for a local girl. And all they have to do is cook for, and have sex with an older ugly guy. And even better, unlike 70% of Vietnamese men, he is less likely to abuse her. 66% of Vietnamese women report that their husbands abuse them. Read More..


Philippines Sexpats at a glance

The Audacity of Farang

Forget culture shock. Forget homesickness. Forget language barrier. The most difficult thing I’ve had to deal with in Thailand is seeing the daily display of vulgar exploitation by foreign men.
This is not a discussion of prostitution, per se, in Thailand. That is another debate, and one which, like the profession, is likely to go on forever. What is disturbing in Thailand is the ability of the farang mind to normalize the john-hooker relationship into something that is presentable to the rest of society. It’s bad enough the extent to which prostitution exists in places like Nana Plaza, Soi Cowboy, and Patpong, but foreigners, young and old alike, feel no shame in bringing their obviously paid for partners to any and every corner of the country. Malls, restaurants, resorts, beaches, condos, parks, normal Thai neighborhoods, wats! Would you take a prostitute you picked up in Los Angeles, London, Sydney, or wherever you came from, and parade her around town? I think not. You would be worried about the social ramifications, glares, and perhaps even a beating if, Read more...
More stories coming up

Thursday, August 8, 2013

I Wrote This For You

 I Wrote This For You

Evan Iliadis By now, Everyone knows my stay in the Philippines has been a turning point in my life. Not because is "An Amazing Country - The Philippines. An Archipelago of Over 7,000 Islands" or because of "Many Islands! Many Languages! A Mix of Many Cultures!". If you like this kind of blogs tourist guide kind you'll find countless on the net. Something like this I like myself.

I like colorful sites  and blogs about the Philippines objectively written by good faith people, those who came for the purpose of discovering the Filipino psyche, a fascinating way of life, a hard to believe meanings deployed for daily survival. It's good. But sorry to point out that no many come to the Philippines for these kind of discoveries. 

During my stay for 6 years I haven't seen many families with blond hair-blue eyes roaming the streets or the tourist attractions, places and monuments. The only foreign looking tourists I see are the husbands of Filipino women living in the country or abroad, including those came solo despite his late age and ugly looks managed to enroll  a young chick of third his age. 

Let'd see what the ambassador of the USA in Manila had to say: 


I Wrote This For You
"FORTY per cent of foreign men visiting the Philippines are sex tourists, the US ambassador in Manila said today in comments that were quickly disputed by the government.
US ambassador Harry Thomas told a forum of Filipino judges and officials that corrupt officials were involved in a very visible sex trade, and challenged the legal profession to eliminate the "scourge".

"We know that 40 per cent of foreign men who come to the Philippines, including from the US, come for sexual tourism. That is not something I'm proud of. That's not something you should be proud of," Thomas said."
Read more: http://www.news.com.au/travel/news/forty-per-cent-of-men-visit-philippines-for-sex/story-e6frfq80-1226144023212#ixzz2bNtEZIQJ

Disputed by the PH government or not, the Ambassador not only he's right on the controversy, he's also conservative on the numbers. The flow is greater than that. 

But why sexpats and pedophiles chose the Philippines as their preferred destination? 

If you ask them, they will all blame their countries, the richest in the world, that didn't take care of them. Like this guy's below posted in a forum.



 RetiredNavyGuy

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  • Location:Yati, Lilo-an, Cebu
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Posted 17 July 2011 - 03:51 AM
'Old55', on 17 Jul 2011 - 10:17 AM, said:
Honestly, do you know of an expat who moved to Philippines recently other than to interact with Filipinas? Excluding the occasional missionary, pedophile or gay has there been any? It is well know back in the day some would move there to hide or start over.
I don't know whether to be insulted, or laugh my ass off. (The latter would probably be a healthy thing. ) I am over here by myself...no girlfriend, no asawa, no missionary zeal, no pedophile or gay photos on my computer or thoughts in my head. Comments like "it is well known" try to turn personal opinion into unquestionable axiomatic fact. 
That won't work, at least with me. In addition, the way you word the sentence makes it sound as if all expats are either a) sexpats, or b) perverts and criminals on the lam. 

I am neither! What I am is a FREE individual who no longer has to worry about big brother tracking my every move, recording my every phone call, pulling me over at random times and places and impounding my car for any level or blood alcohol or drugs (those of you who think you have to have a 0.08 or 0.1 blood level are woefully out of date), and do any other damn thing he wants, including believing that he can take porno pics and/or grope me any time he feels like it. 

(Those who don't believe would do well to Google VIPR groups under the TSA...what they do, WHERE they do it (HINT: Its not airports), and why TSA wants to triple the number of such units.)I chose FIRST to leave the nanny/police state America is fast becoming while that was still possible. I suppose, if you want to stretch it, that could be interpreted as hiding or starting over. I view it as refusing to become one of the steeple

If America had been as bad in the early 60's as it has become now, I would never have joined the military, much less given more than 20 years of my life to defending her. Sometimes, I can't help but cry when I see what she has become, but my staying there would not have made any difference other than probably destroying me. So I chose to leave.

The SECOND decision was to choose the Philippines as my initial destination. ...they speak English, in general I like the laid back attitude of the people (the are bad people in every country), the country side is beautiful (outside of the big cities), and they are close to the rest of Asia. 

If I decide I am not comfortable here, Malaysia, Thailand, Singapore, Hong Kong, New Zealand are all fairly close by. Okay, truth in advertising...the Filipinas aren't bad either. Not against hooking up with one, just not actively seeking same.I don't believe I am the only one here for other than sex, or hide.
Edited by RetiredNavyGuy, 17 July 2011 - 04:58 AM.
Since I wasn't  living there as a sexpat,  I'll post what somebody else who knows the  sexpat community upside down had to say. Let's now post this. 

From the Philippines-sexpats wall of shame